A simple act of roadway courtesy

I have always believed in riding courteously, remembering that sharing the road is a two-way street. And that I have no less — or greater — right to it than anyone else.

So I didn’t think twice when I pulled up to a red light at a narrow intersection, and noticed the car behind me had its blinker on. I simply lifted my bike and made a couple quick sidesteps to the left so he could get by and make his right turn.

What happened next surprised me, though.

As he rolled past, the driver lowered his window, waved and said “Thank you; thank you very much” — sounding so much like an Elvis impersonator that I could barely keep from laughing.

Still winded from the sprint that got me there, the best I could manage in response was a nod and a smile, combined with a friendly wave. But he got the idea.

And just for a moment, we truly saw each other, not as adversaries competing for the same limited piece of pavement, but as real human beings.

Whether he’ll remember that the next time a cyclist is blocking his path, I have no idea. Or whether I will the next time an impatient driver follows too close or cuts me off.

But it only took a simple act of roadway courtesy, and its acknowledgement, to make me truly visible to another road user. And to lift my spirits for the rest of my ride.

And the rest of my day.

……..

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8 comments

  1. Good on you! I’ve executed that same maneuver to give room to pass and it never ceases to amaze me how many motorists just sit there and don’t make the turn. It’s almost gotten to the point when one does I want to thank them!

  2. TheTricksterNZ says:

    Yeah, I try and do the same thing when I can. Most drivers here take advantage of it, but only once or twice have I been thanked.

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  5. Digital Dame says:

    That happened to me one time. I scooted up and over a bit, although the driver really had plenty of room to get past me in the right turn lane as it was. I think he was just afraid to get too close, thinking I hadn’t realized he was there. But like your situation, he actually thanked me. Ever since then I’ve been really conscious of doing that.

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